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Setting Goals with the Right Mindset

Jaspal Singh - 8 September 2024

Setting life goals

Setting goals is essential to success in any area of life. But setting goals without the right mindset is like embarking on a journey without a map or compass. A goal-oriented mindset provides the inner drive, clarity, and determination to pursue our dreams. As Stephen Covey writes in his well-known book ‘The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, ‘Begin with the end in mind.’ This means having a clear vision of your goal is the first step, but achieving it requires a mindset focused on growth, resilience, and perseverance.

This write-up will explore setting goals effectively while fostering the right mindset to ensure success. We’ll examine the importance of believing in yourself, maintaining focus, being resilient, and learning from setbacks. Quotes from well-known books, including a few from Indian authors, will provide added inspiration and guidance.

1. The Importance of a Positive Mindset

A positive mindset is one of the most crucial factors in setting and achieving goals. As Norman Vincent Peale, author of ‘The Power of Positive Thinking’, writes, ‘Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without humble but reasonable confidence in your powers, you cannot be successful or happy.’

Having a positive mindset means looking at challenges not as obstacles, but as opportunities for growth. When you set a goal, the journey will not always be smooth, but staying positive will help you persevere during difficult times. With the right mindset, even failures can be viewed as stepping stones to success.

Indian author Shiv Khera, in his bestselling book ‘You Can Win’, emphasizes the power of self-belief. He writes, ‘Winners don’t do different things, they do things differently.‘His words remind us that adopting a winner’s mindset is about how you approach problems and persist in the face of adversity. When you believe in your ability to succeed, you’re more likely to take the necessary steps to achieve your goals, even if the path ahead looks daunting.

2. Setting SMART Goals

The SMART framework (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound) is one of the most effective methods for setting clear and actionable goals. Coupled with a positive mindset, it provides the structure and motivation needed to stay on track.

Setting Goals

Specific: Your goals should be clear and well-defined. Avoid setting vague goals like ‘I want to get fit.’ Instead, say, ‘I want to lose 5 kilograms in three months by exercising three times a week and following a healthy diet.’

Measurable: Tracking your progress is crucial for staying motivated. For instance, if you aim to write a book, you might set a goal of writing 500 words a day. This makes your goal measurable and ensures that you can see your progress.

Achievable: While it’s essential to aim high, make sure your goals are realistic and within reach. Setting overly ambitious goals without a plan can lead to frustration and burnout. Instead, start small and build momentum as you achieve smaller milestones.

Relevant: Your goals should align with your broader life purpose. Ask yourself, ‘Why is this goal important to me?’ This ensures that you remain committed even when challenges arise.

Time-bound: Deadlines create urgency and accountability. Without a set timeframe, goals can easily be postponed indefinitely. A time-bound goal like “I will run a marathon in six months” provides a clear target.

In his book ‘Think and Grow Rich‘, Napoleon Hill emphasizes the importance of clarity and planning in goal setting. He writes, ‘A goal is a dream with a deadline.’ This quote highlights the necessity of setting specific timeframes and committing to them.

3. Resilience: The Key to Overcoming Setbacks

Resilience is an essential quality in achieving long-term goals. No matter how well you plan or how motivated you are, there will inevitably be challenges along the way. What sets successful people apart is their ability to bounce back from setbacks.

In ‘Wings of Fire‘, the autobiography of former Indian President Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam, he describes the numerous challenges he faced as a scientist working on India’s missile program. Despite multiple failures, Kalam remained resilient and committed to his vision of success. He writes, ‘Dreams are not those which come while we are sleeping, but dreams are those when you don’t sleep before fulfilling them.’ His words underscore the importance of staying focused and resilient when pursuing your goals, no matter how difficult the journey becomes.

The ability to learn from failure is a hallmark of resilience. As J. K. Rowling famously said, ‘It is impossible to live without failing at something unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all.’ Failures offer valuable lessons, and with the right mindset, every setback becomes an opportunity to learn, grow, and come back stronger.

4. Focus: The Bridge Between Goals and Success

Focus is one of the most critical factors in goal achievement. Many people set goals but become distracted along the way, losing sight of what they’re trying to achieve. In ‘The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari’, Indian Canadian author Robin Sharma writes, ‘The mind is a wonderful servant but a terrible master.’ This quote reminds us of the importance of controlling our thoughts and staying focused on what matters.

When you set a goal, it’s easy to become sidetracked by daily distractions or to lose motivation when progress is slow. That’s why it’s essential to remain focused and remind yourself regularly of why you set that goal.

One practical way to maintain focus is by breaking larger goals into smaller, manageable tasks. This not only makes your goal less overwhelming but also allows you to track your progress more easily. Each small win builds momentum, helping you stay focused and motivated over the long term.

5. Believing in Yourself: The Power of Self-Confidence

Self-belief is the foundation upon which all successful goal-setting is built. If you don’t believe in your ability to achieve your goals, you’re likely to give up at the first sign of difficulty. As Swami Vivekananda, one of India’s greatest philosophers, once said, ‘You cannot believe in God until you believe in yourself.’

Believing in yourself means recognizing that you have the inner strength and capabilities to achieve whatever you set your mind to. It doesn’t mean that success will come easily or that you won’t encounter failures, but it does mean that you trust yourself to overcome those obstacles and keep moving forward.

Louise Hay, in her book ‘You Can Heal Your Life’, reminds us of the power of positive affirmations. She writes, ‘You have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.’ By practising self-love and affirming your strengths, you develop the inner confidence necessary to persist in the face of challenges.

6. Embracing the Process

While it’s essential to stay focused on your goal, it’s equally important to enjoy working toward it. As the famous Indian spiritual leader Sri Sri Ravi Shankar says, ‘The secret of success is to enjoy the journey.’ When you fall in love with the process, setbacks become easier to handle, and progress becomes more meaningful.

In his book ‘Atomic Habits’, James Clear highlights the value of small, incremental progress. He writes, ‘Success is the product of daily habits—not once-in-a-lifetime transformations.’ This perspective encourages us to focus on developing the right habits and systems that will eventually lead to our desired outcome.

By focusing on the process rather than just the result, you ensure that you’re not just living for a future goal, but making every day count toward personal growth.

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Setting goals with the right mindset is the key to achieving long-term success. Whether you’re setting SMART goals, practising resilience, staying focused, or believing in yourself, the mindset you cultivate plays a pivotal role in determining your outcomes. Remember that the journey to success is often filled with challenges, but with a positive mindset, you can overcome any obstacle. As Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam wisely said, ‘Don’t take rest after your first victory because if you fail in the second, more lips are waiting to say that your first victory was just luck.‘ Stay resilient, stay focused, and most importantly, believe in yourself.

By embracing a growth mindset, you’ll not only achieve your goals but also transform into a stronger, more resilient version of yourself.

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The Power of a Positive Mindset in our lives

Jaspal Singh - 7 September 2024

Positive thinking is not just a mindset; it’s a way of life. This powerful perspective emphasizes the transformative impact of optimism on our daily experiences. As Norman Vincent Peale once said, “Change your thoughts and you change your world.” Embracing a positive attitude can uplift our spirits and motivate those around us, fostering an environment where opportunities flourish. In a world often filled with challenges, cultivating an optimistic mindset can be the key to unlocking our potential and enhancing our overall well-being.

Success in life often begins in the mind. Our thoughts shape our actions, influence our emotions, and ultimately guide our paths. At the heart of this connection is the concept of mindset, which serves as the lens through which we interpret the world around us. This article will explore how a positive mindset can lay the foundation for a successful and fulfilling life. To do so, we will differentiate between two key types of mindsets: fixed mindset and growth mindset, while delving into how neuroscience supports the power of positive thinking.

The Importance of Mindset in Shaping Our Lives

A positive mindset is more than just a cheery outlook on life. It is a mental attitude that actively seeks possibilities, solutions, and opportunities, rather than dwelling on obstacles and limitations. The mindset we adopt influences every aspect of our life—from the way we approach challenges, to how we handle failures, to our ability to embrace personal and professional growth.

Dr. Carol Dweck, a renowned psychologist, identified two primary types of mindsets in her groundbreaking work on human motivation: fixed mindset and growth mindset. People with a fixed mindset believe their abilities, intelligence, and talents are innate traits—they are either born with them or not. As a result, they tend to avoid challenges, fear failure, and view effort as a fruitless endeavour. For someone with a fixed mindset, success is a measure of inherent talent, not the result of hard work.

Positive mindset

In contrast, those with a growth mindset believe that abilities can be developed through dedication, effort, and learning. They see challenges as opportunities to improve, view failure as a stepping stone to success, and understand that effort leads to mastery. For them, success is the result of persistence and resilience. This positive mindset is key to unlocking potential and achieving long-term success in life.

How Thoughts Influence Emotions, Actions, and Success

Our thoughts create a ripple effect that impacts our emotions and behavior. Positive thinking, for instance, tends to lead to positive emotions, such as joy, hope, and enthusiasm. When we feel these emotions, we are more likely to engage in constructive behaviours—setting and pursuing goals, maintaining healthy habits, and persevering in the face of difficulties. Conversely, negative thinking often triggers emotions such as fear, frustration, and discouragement, which can result in avoidance behaviours, procrastination, or giving up when faced with challenges.

The famous quote by Henry Ford—“Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t, you’re right”—perfectly illustrates the self-fulfilling prophecy that our mindset creates. If we believe that we are capable of success, we take action toward our goals, reinforcing that belief with every step forward. On the other hand, if we doubt our abilities, we may fail to take the necessary actions, thereby reinforcing the belief that we cannot succeed.

The Role of Neuroscience in a Positive Mindset

The idea that our mindset directly impacts our success is not just philosophical—it is supported by neuroscience. The brain has a quality known as neuroplasticity, so it can reorganize itself by forming new neural connections throughout life. This ability allows us to rewire our thought patterns, shifting from negative to positive thinking with conscious effort and practice.

When we engage in positive thinking, the brain releases chemicals such as dopamine and serotonin, which are associated with feelings of happiness, motivation, and reward. These chemicals reinforce our positive mindset, creating a feedback loop that strengthens our ability to maintain optimism and resilience. On the other hand, negative thinking can trigger the release of stress hormones like cortisol, which can impair cognitive function and undermine our ability to think clearly and solve problems effectively.

Studies have shown that practising positive thinking through methods like affirmations, visualization, and gratitude can physically change the structure of the brain over time. This means that adopting a positive mindset is not just about willpower; it is about training the brain to focus on the positive and enhancing our chances for success.

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So, finally, we can say that a positive mindset is a powerful tool that can shape our entire experience of life. By choosing to adopt a growth mindset and focusing on positive thoughts, we unlock the potential to achieve success, not only in our careers but in our personal relationships, health, and overall well-being. As we move through life, it’s important to remember that our thoughts are within our control. With conscious effort, we can cultivate a positive mindset that leads us toward a life of fulfilment and achievement. This chapter lays the groundwork for understanding how an essential mindset is for success and sets the stage for practical steps to achieve and sustain it.

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A controversial glamour girl of Emergency Days, Rukhsana Sultana

Jaspal Singh - 3 March 2024

Rukhsana Sultana

Updated on September 11th, 2024

Born in Jalandhar as Meenu Bimbet, Rakhsana Sultana possessed an ethereal beauty that captivated all who crossed her path. Her elegance and beauty drew admirers from all walks of life, including the corridors of power and the glittering world of Bollywood. Her association with Sanjay Gandhi, coupled with her lineage as the mother of Bollywood actress Amrita Singh and maternal grandmother to Sara Ali Khan, propelled her into the spotlight of both the political and entertainment spheres. Wife and divorcee of an Indian Army Officer who was a close relative of writer Sardar Khuswant Singh, Rukhsana has many facets of her pleasing and controversial personality.

Days of Emergency, Sanjay Gandhi & Rukhsana Sultana

India saw dark days of emergency in 1975, declared on 25th June 1975, it prolonged for 21 months. During the Emergency, Sanjay Gandhi gained prominence as a politician, advising his mother on all fronts. Sanjay Gandhi played an important role in the arrest of senior opposition leaders and during the subsequent General Elections in 1977. Sanjay Gandhi attained the image of forced sterilization and moving people of the minority community out of New Delhi.

Being a very close aide of Sanjay Gandhi, she was put in charge of tasks for family planning around old Delhi, especially the Jama Masjid area. Sanjay encouraged her to work in the sensitive walled city area of the capital. Tasked with implementing Sanjay Gandhi’s family planning initiatives, she adopted a relentless approach that often veered into coercion and force. The forced sterilizations and slum relocations she orchestrated in the Jama Masjid area of Delhi sparked outrage and condemnation, particularly among the Muslim community.

Her aggressive tactics earned her a reputation as a feared and despised figure, with many viewing her as a symbol of authoritarianism and oppression during one of India’s darkest periods. Much beyond the given target of 8000 persons to motivate family planning, she forcefully sterilised 13000 people. She was so aggressive that people, especially Muslim used to see her as a fearful personality. The situation became so tense that it also caused law and order problems in Delhi. 

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Rukhsana & Sanjay Gandhi

Meeting of Rukhsana with Sanjay Gandhi at her boutique in Delhi

Rukhsana Sultana, the mother of Bollywood actress Amrita Singh and maternal grandmother of actress Sara Ali Khan, managed a boutique in the Connaught Place area of Delhi. It was during her time there that she encountered Sanjay Gandhi, who visited her boutique, where she retailed high-end diamond jewellery, to purchase some diamonds to gift someone. Rukhsana was thrilled to see the prime minister’s son visit her boutique. After the first meeting, she told Sanjay that she felt highly motivated and inspired by his leadership qualities and offered to dedicate her life to his ‘cause’. The meeting blossomed into frequent interactions, eventually becoming public knowledge within the political circles of the time. Rukhshana’s assertive personality and influence were such that people often sought her out before approaching Sanjay Gandhi himself.

Many leaders and other people used to approach her for their tasks in governmental circles. Indira Gandhi, Meneka Gandhi, and many other congress leaders were not comfortable with Rukhsana. Ambika Soni, a politician from Punjab and a youth leader in those days, was one of them. Once she objected to her presence, but Sanjay Gandhi ruled out her objection, saying that Youth Congress needs Rukhsana, Rukhsana doesn’t need Youth Congress, so they must act accordingly. She was so special, often saying herself the ‘Ice Cream buddy’ of Sanjay. What it means was not clear to any.

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Another Image of Rukhsana & Sanjay

Family background & married life of Rukhsana

Rukhsana, a niece of actress Begum Para and a pin-up girl of the 1950s was married to Indian Army Officer Shivinder Singh Virk, who was a close relative of renowned writer and journalist Sardar Khushwant Singh. Together, they welcomed a daughter named Amrita Singh. However, their marriage eventually ended in separation. Following this, Rukhsana Sultana ventured into the fashion industry in Delhi, where fate would lead her to cross paths with Sanjay Gandhi. Despite an attempt at a career in Bollywood, she did not achieve success in the film industry.

Rukhsana Sultana
Rukhsana Sultana

Tale of Hazzi Mastan: An Intriguing Encounter

Among the myriad stories surrounding Rakhsana Sultana, one stands out as a testament to her allure and mystique, her encounter with the notorious underworld figure, Hazzi Mastan. Legend has it that their paths crossed over a rare bar of CAMAY soap, a luxury item smuggled from France. Despite her high social standing, Rukhsana’s desire for the elusive soap led her to a chance meeting with Hazzi Mastan, who allegedly fulfilled her wish in a surprising turn of events.

Here is a fascinating story about Rukhsana and the underworld don Hazzi Mastan. Rukhsana loved using CAMAY soap, which was hard to find in India in those days. It was from France and smuggled to India. One day, when she couldn’t find it anywhere in Bombay, she returned to her car to find it filled fully with the same soap. To her surprise, a person was standing, revealing himself as the one who left the soap. He was the underworld DON of that time, Hazzi Mastan. This story shows how Rukhsana’s beauty attracted admirers from unexpected places.

Rukhsana Sultana remains a complex and controversial figure in Indian history, her beauty and influence juxtaposed against the backdrop of authoritarianism and turmoil. Despite the controversies that surrounded her, her legacy endures as a testament to the complexities of power, beauty, and influence in society.
Disclaimer: The facts discussed in this article are based on media reports and different books on the topic.

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Louis XIV and His Women: A Tale of Love and Power

Jaspal Singh - 5 October 2023

Louis XIV

Louis XIV’s love of women is well known. Throughout his life, he had several mistresses including the Marquise de Montespan and the Duchess of La Vallière, both of whom bore him several legitimated children. Louis XIV had a real eye for the ladies. He had a series of mistresses, each leaving their mark on both his personal life and the history of France. This article delves into the intriguing world of Louis XIV’s romantic entanglements, highlighting some of the most prominent women who captured his heart.

Marie Mancini: The Forbidden Love

Marie Mancini was an Italian noblewoman and the niece of Cardinal Mazarin, who served as the chief minister to King Louis XIV of France. She and Louis XIV did indeed have a romantic relationship during their youth. Marie Mancini was a part of the Mazarin family, which had a significant influence at the French court. The love story was one of the early romantic episodes in Louis XIV’s life. However, it did not lead to marriage, as Cardinal Mazarin, who had ambitions for his niece, was more interested in securing political alliances through her marriage. Ultimately, Louis XIV married Maria Theresa of Spain in 1660 for political reasons, and Marie Mancini was married off to another nobleman.

Marie Mancini, one of Women of Louis XIV
Marie Manchini

Marie Mancini’s relationship with Louis XIV is notable for its influence on the young king and for the political maneuvering that surrounded it, but it did not result in a lasting love story in the traditional sense. Ultimately, their love was short-lived, as they banished Marie Mancini from the royal court, leaving Louis to fulfill his dynastic duty of marriage.

Maria Theresa and Louis XIV: A Political Union

Maria Theresa of Spain and Louis XIV of France had a significant political marriage in the 17th century, which was a key event in European diplomacy. Their union was part of the broader efforts to establish peace and alliances in Europe during the time. In 1660, Maria Theresa, the Infanta of Spain, married Louis XIV, the King of France, in a marriage that ended decades of conflict between France and Spain. This marriage was part of the Treaty of the Pyrenees, which concluded the Franco-Spanish War. Maria Theresa brought a substantial dowry and several territorial rights to the marriage, which should strengthen the position of France.

Maria Theresa, one of Women of Louis XIV
Maria Theresa

Their marriage was not without its difficulties, and it faced challenges, including political tensions and personal conflicts. Despite this, Maria Theresa and Louis XIV had several children together, and their marriage played a role in consolidating Louis XIV’s power and expanding France’s influence in Europe.

This union contributed to the diplomatic landscape of 17th-century Europe and had a lasting impact on the history of France and Spain. It marked a significant shift in European alliances and rivalries during that era. This union was not born out of love but political necessity. Despite its initial purpose, this marriage had significant implications for the French monarchy and European politics.

Louise de La Vallière: The First Official Mistress

Louise de La Vallière and Louis XIV had a notable love story during the reign of the Sun King in 17th-century France. Born in 1644, she became one of Louis XIV’s mistresses when she was quite young, around 1661. Their relationship was characterized by genuine affection, and Louise was known for her modesty and religious devotion, which was unusual for a royal mistress of that time. She bore several children with Louis XIV, although many of them did not survive infancy. During this time, she bore the king four children, two of whom were legitimized. Her presence at the court marked the beginning of a pattern in Louis’s love life, one that included the legitimization of offspring.

Louise de La Vallière,one of Women of Louis XIV
Louise de La Vallière

Louise de La Vallière’s influence on Louis XIV was significant. She encouraged him to become more involved in religious matters, and it’s believed that her piety had a positive impact on the king. However, as with many royal love affairs, their relationship faced challenges, including competition from other mistresses and the demands of court life. Eventually, Louise de La Vallière withdrew from the court and entered a convent in 1674, where she spent the remainder of her life in religious devotion.

While their love story had its ups and downs, Louise de La Vallière’s influence on Louis XIV, as well as her transition to a life of piety, is a notable aspect of their historical relationship.

Marquise de Montespan: The Ultimate Temptation

The Marquise de Montespan, a beauty who captured the king’s heart during the Flanders campaign in 1667, would become one of his most prominent mistresses. She became one of the most famous and influential mistresses of the Sun King during the latter half of the 17th century.

Beginnings of the Relationship: Françoise-Athénaïs de Rochechouart de Mortemart, known as Athénaïs, became a lady-in-waiting to Queen Maria Theresa of Spain. Through her charm and wit, she caught the eye of Louis XIV, and their relationship began while he was still involved with Louise de La Vallière.

Marquise de Montespan, one of Women of Louis XIV
Marquise de Montespan

Principal Mistress: Athénaïs soon became Louis XIV’s principal mistress, effectively replacing Louise de La Vallière in his affections. Her beauty, intelligence, and strong personality made her a prominent figure at the royal court. Athénaïs bore several children for Louis XIV, and unlike Louise de La Vallière, she openly acknowledged them and raised them at court. These children were legitimized and given noble titles.

As the king’s principal mistress, Athénaïs wielded significant influence. She was involved in political and social affairs, and her position allowed her to promote the interests of her family and allies. As years passed, the intensity of Louis XIV’s relationship with Athénaïs waned. He had other mistresses and faced political pressures that led to a decline in their relationship. After her fall from grace, Athénaïs retired from the court and lived in a more secluded manner. She became a patron of the arts and culture.

The love story between the Marquise de Montespan and Louis XIV is emblematic of the complex and sometimes tumultuous relationships that characterized the French court during the reign of the Sun King. It’s also a reflection of the shifting dynamics of power and influence in the royal court.

Mademoiselle de Fontanges: A Brief Interlude

Mademoiselle de Fontanges, a youthful beauty, briefly won the favor of Louis XIV. Her relationship with the king was fleeting, demonstrating the ever-changing dynamics of Louis’s romantic life. Mademoiselle de Fontanges, whose real name was Marie Angélique de Scorailles, was a French noblewoman who lived during the reign of King Louis XIV of France. While there is no well-documented love story between them, there were rumors and speculations about a romantic relationship.

Mademoiselle de Fontanges,one of Women of Louis XIV
Mademoiselle de Fontanges

Marie Angélique de Scorailles was known for her beauty, and she caught the attention of the King when she attended the court. Some say that Louis XIV had an affair with her, which might have caused jealousy and intrigue at the royal court. However, there is limited historical evidence to confirm the extent of their relationship.

It’s important to note that Louis XIV had many mistresses throughout his life, including Madame de Montespan and Madame de Maintenon, and his romantic involvements were a subject of great interest during his reign. The exact nature of his relationship with Mademoiselle de Fontanges remains a mystery, as historical records from that time are not always clear or reliable.

Madame de Maintenon: From Governess to Queen

Françoise d’Aubigné, who would later become Madame de Maintenon, entered Louis XIV’s life as the governess to Madame de Montespan’s children. Her sweetness and charm eventually captured the king’s heart. Following the death of Maria Theresa, their secret marriage in 1683 marked a remarkable turn of events. Madame de Maintenon’s influence on the king was profound, as she became a confidante and advisor.

Madame de Maintenon, one of Women of Louis XIV
Madame de Maintenon

Louis XIV’s relationships with women were not merely affairs of the heart; they had far-reaching consequences for the French monarchy and the course of European history. From forbidden love to political unions and passionate affairs, his romantic entanglements reflect the complexity of his reign. These women, each unique in their own right, left an indelible mark on the Sun King’s legacy and the annals of history.

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Sailing Through Dubai Marina Cruise Experience

Jaspal Singh - 20 September 2023

Dubai Cruise

Dubai, the city of opulence and grandeur, is not only famous for its towering skyscrapers and luxurious shopping malls but also for its breathtaking waterways. One of the most captivating experiences that Dubai offers is a journey aboard a traditional Dubai Marina cruise. I had the privilege of embarking on this enchanting adventure during my educational trip to Dubai, and it was truly a highlight of the visit.

Setting Sail in Dubai: A Cruise Experience

Dubai’s cruises are a testament to the city’s ability to seamlessly blend tradition with modernity. These beautifully crafted wooden vessels have been part of the region’s maritime heritage for centuries. Stepping aboard one of these mini ships is like stepping back in time while enjoying the backdrop of a futuristic cityscape.

Dubai Cruise
Dubai Marina Cruise

A Rainy Day Adds to the Magic

One thing that made my Cruise experience in Dubai even more special was the unexpected rain. Dubai’s desert climate rarely sees rain, and I consider myself fortunate to have witnessed this rarity. We reached the spot, and the rain started. The raindrops falling gently on the deck added a touch of more magical romance to the evening.

The Spectacular Skyline

As the dhow glided along the Arabian waters, the Dubai skyline came into view. The contrast between the traditional dhow and the modern skyscrapers in the background was a sight to behold. The city’s top landmarks, including the iconic Burj Khalifa and the magnificent Palm Jumeirah, looked even more awe-inspiring from the water. It was a wonderful skyline all around with sky-touching buildings.

Entertainment and Gastronomy

The Dubai Marina Cruise was not just about scenic beauty; it was also a feast for the senses. The cruise offered a delightful blend of entertainment, music, dance, and culinary delights. All team members enjoyed clicking pics and making videos. The onboard entertainment showcased the rich culture of the region, with traditional music and dance performances that transported us to another world.

The sumptuous dinner served on the dhow was a gastronomic delight. From traditional Middle Eastern dishes to international cuisine, there was something to tantalize every palate. And of course, the evening wouldn’t be complete without sipping on refreshing drinks while enjoying the cool breeze off the Arabian Gulf.

A Memorable Dubai Experience

My journey on the Dubai Marina Cruise was a captivating blend of tradition, luxury, and modernity. It was a testament to Dubai’s ability to surprise and enchant its visitors with unique experiences. Whether it’s your first time in Dubai or a return visit, a dhow cruise is an experience that should not be missed. It’s a voyage that will leave you with lasting memories and a deeper appreciation for this incredible city that seamlessly marries the past and the future. Dubai, with its Marine Cruise and so much more, truly stands as a beacon of wonder in the heart of the Middle East.

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The Historical Legacy and Cultural Significance of Gurdwara Nada Sahib

Jaspal Singh - 11 September 2023

Nada Sahib

Gurdwara Nada Sahib, in the serene town of Panchkula, Panchkula on the bank of the Ghaggar River in Shivalik foothills, is a deeply cherished place for Sikhs. It holds a rich history closely connected to Guru Gobind Singh, the tenth Sikh Guru. Let’s explore its historical background, the miracles associated with it, its remarkable architecture, and its role as a pilgrimage destination and center of festivities.

Historical Background

In the early 18th century, Guru Gobind Singh was going through a tough time. The tenth guru halted here while traveling from Paonta Sahib to Anandpur Sahib after the VICTORY in the Battle of Bhangani in 1688. A man from the Lobana caste Nadhu Shah served SHRI GURU GOBIND SINGH JI with great dedication resulting in GURU SAHIB blessing him that this place would be called in his name. Guru ji blessed that people’s wishes will be fulfilled by visiting this place with devotion. Puranmasi day is celebrated every month in this place with great devotion. In appreciation for this assistance and the warm welcome from the local community, Guru Gobind Singh gave his blessings to the place and named it “Nada Sahib.”

Gurdwara Nada Sahib starts live-streaming Gurbani daily from today (11 September, 2023. Telecast to take place in 63 countries through World Punjabi TV, social media page, and YouTube channel of the HSGMC. Gurbani will also be telecast on the social media page and YouTube channel of the HSGMC. However, the rights will remain with the HSGMC.

Gurdwara Nada Sahib
Gurdwara Nada Sahib

Significance and Miracles

Gurdwara Nada Sahib is famous for its healing spring, believed to have special powers. The story goes that the water from this spring miraculously healed Guru Gobind Singh’s sick horse, Dilbagh. This remarkable incident deepened the faith of Sikhs in their Guru. The Gurdwara is not just a historical site but a symbol of strong devotion among Sikhs. Guru Gobind Singh’s blessings have made this place profoundly important for Sikhs all around the world.

Architecture and Heritage

The Gurdwara complex today is an architectural wonder, showcasing traditional Sikh design elements. Inside, you’ll find the main prayer hall, a serene holy pond (Sarovar), and a place for Langar. The Gurdwara also houses historical relics and artifacts connected to Guru Gobind Singh, such as a bed and weapons.

Pilgrimage and Festivals

Gurdwara Nada Sahib is a magnet for pilgrims and visitors throughout the year. Devotees come here to find inner peace, offer their prayers, and soak in the spiritual atmosphere that fills the complex. Special celebrations take place at the Gurdwara during Gurpurabs and other significant Sikh festivals. These events include soul-stirring devotional singing (Kirtan), religious processions, and community gatherings, creating an atmosphere of spiritual joy and unity.

Gurdwara Nada Sahib is not just a place; it’s a living testament to the Sikh faith and the blessings of Guru Gobind Singh. Its rich history, coupled with its cultural significance, makes it a vital pilgrimage destination for Sikhs and an attractive place for anyone interested in exploring Sikh heritage and spirituality. It stands as a symbol of unwavering devotion and continues to inspire generations of devotees.

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Remembering Des Raj Kali: A Literary Icon and Social Visionary

Jaspal Singh - 29 August 2023

Des Raj Kali

A Journey Rooted in Punjab’s Heartlands

Des Raj Kali’s journey began in Mithapur village, Jalandhar, where he absorbed the influences of Sufi saints and Dalit writers like Lal Singh Dil and Sant Gulab Das. These early experiences laid the foundation for his later work that would captivate hearts across the world. We met first time when he was the resident editor of the magazine section of Dainik Bhaskar at Jalandhar. Since then we have always been in touch, every time discussing some new topic. I always enjoyed his company. He passed away at a very early age of 51, on 27th August 2023. His literary works were celebrated on platforms ranging from the Jaipur Literature Festival (2010) to special sessions at Nottingham Trent University in England, Montpellier University, in France, and Monash University, in Australia, among others.

A Voice for the Unheard: Dalit Narratives Unveiled

Kali’s deep connection to his culturally elite Dalit background allowed him to articulate the struggles, injustices, and aspirations of Dalit life through his novels and short stories. His exploration of anti-caste struggles, culture, and tradition brought these crucial issues to the forefront of literary discourse.

Shanti Parav: Treatise on Peace

Through his bestseller “Shanti Parav,” published by Orient Blackswan, Kali offered a perspective on post-colonial Punjab from a Dalit vantage point. Themes of governance, violence, and peace were deftly woven into the narrative, earning him accolades and recognition.

Ghadar Movement’s Historian: Rediscovering Forgotten Heroes

Kali’s dedication extended beyond fiction as he meticulously documented the history of the Ghadar movement. His books like “Ungauley Nayak” and “Gadri Banta Singh Sanghwal” breathed life into forgotten stories, showcasing his commitment to preserving the legacy of those who fought for freedom.

Des Raj Kali
Des Raj Kali

From Punjab to the World: Global Celebrations

Kali’s impact reached beyond borders as he became a celebrated figure at prominent festivals including the Jaipur Literature Festival and Samanvay Samagam. His engagements with foreign universities fostered connections between diverse communities, highlighting the universality of his themes.

Literary Stewardship and Cinematic Visions

Apart from his written legacy, Kali’s editorial role in “Lakeer” and his directorial endeavor “Kitey Mil Ve Mahi” showcased his multi-faceted talent. His commitment to amplifying marginalized voices through these mediums reinforced his status as a visionary storyteller.

A Living Legacy

While Des Raj Kali’s physical presence may have departed, his impact endures. His words continue to resonate, drawing from the cultural riches of Punjab and the resilience of Dalit narratives. Through his literary prowess, Kali remains an eternal part of Punjab’s cultural fabric, inspiring present and future generations alike.

Kali was running his own YouTube channel BarqtanWebTV, a platform where he discussed caste issues, culture, tradition, Punjab, Punjabi, and Punjabiyat, and human-interest issues. Kali’s office near Jalandhar Doordarshan Kendra remained our sought-after destination, where friends used to meet and discuss many things ranging from life, society, politics, and national and international issues.

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Explore the Journey and Inspiration of my blogs

Jaspal Singh - 24 August 2023

Office

Updated on August 27th, 2023

I’m Adv Jaspal Singh, a Lawyer, consultant, traveler, and firm believer in the power of storytelling. The idea of venturing into the unknown, uncovering hidden gems, and immersing myself in different cultures has always ignited a fire within me. And so, I embarked on a journey to share my experiences and insights with the world through my writings. I wrote my first online blog in 2010 when I was on my holiday trip to Australia. I visited Mount Buller, a beautiful place in Melbourne, and thought to share my travel experiences. It was on https://hubpages.com/@jaspals where I have been writing blogs.

Exploring my passions and curiosities through hubpages.com/@jaspals has been a fulfilling adventure. Each blog I penned allowed me to not only share my insights but also learn from the interactions and discussions they sparked. The platform provided a canvas for my creativity, and the sense of accomplishment from seeing my ideas resonate with others is truly unmatched. As I continue to contribute and connect, I’m excited to see how my journey on HubPages evolves, both as a writer and as someone who’s eager to contribute to the online community.

Starting my blog AdvJaspal.com

After my time on hubpages.com/@jaspals, I felt an increasing desire to establish a more personal platform where I could express myself freely and share my experiences in an even more intimate manner. This led me to the decision to create my very own blog site, and after careful consideration, I chose the domain name advjaspal.com. This choice held special significance for me, as it not only reflected my intent to share insightful advice but also encapsulated my identity as a writer, Jaspal. I’ve woven narratives, penned articles, and crafted posts that are close to my heart, each revealing a different facet of my personality and interests. The platform has become more than just a blog site—it’s a canvas where I paint my thoughts, an archive where my EXPRESSIONS are documented.

Sharing experiences with readers

Through my blogs, I seek to transport readers to the far-flung corners of the globe, allowing them to see, feel, and experience the beauty and wonder that I have been fortunate enough to encounter. From the majestic peaks of the Himalayas to the bustling streets of vibrant cities worldwide, I find inspiration in every step I take. But it’s not just about the destinations; it’s about the stories behind them. I believe that travel is not just about ticking off places on a map but about the connections we make along the way. It’s about meeting fascinating people, learning from their perspectives, and embracing the diversity that enriches our world. My writings reflect my wanderlust spirit, blending personal anecdotes with practical tips, captivating descriptions, and thought-provoking observations.

Sharing other experiences

Beyond travel, my blog also serves as a platform for exploring a range of topics and viewpoints close to my heart. From cultural insights to lifestyle musings, I endeavor to provoke meaningful discussions and share knowledge that resonates with readers. So, dear reader, join me in this virtual adventure. Let my words be your guide and my stories be your inspiration. Together, let’s embrace the wonders of our world, one tale at a time. Get ready to wander, dream, and discover, for the journey starts here.

So, fellow wanderer, grab a cup of coffee, settle into a cozy chair, and dive into the captivating realm of my writings. Join me as we embark on this adventure together, seeking inspiration, cultural understanding, and the sheer joy of discovering the world around us. Let’s explore and create beautiful memories together!

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Pursuing purpose, making work a gateway to Happiness

Jaspal Singh - 5 August 2023

Work is Happiness

Updated on September 8th, 2024

In the realm of casual conversation, one of my closest friends made a remark that struck a chord deep within me. “You have no interest in work,” she said, and though I knew she wasn’t meant to be hurtful, it left me pondering my path. At almost 57 years old, I have dedicated nearly 28 years of my life as an Overseas Education Consultant, working tirelessly to place Indian students in educational institutions across the globe. Guiding thousands of young minds and contributing to their education and careers has been a source of immense pride and fulfillment for me. Working for happiness can lead to a more fulfilling and content life.

I always held hands & supported ambitious ones

Throughout my journey, I have held the hands of ambitious individuals, supporting them as they adopted the same career path, ultimately witnessing their remarkable success and fulfillment. The satisfaction derived from guiding someone to discover their passion and choose the right path is invaluable. Indeed, the sense of purpose and the knowledge that I have played a pivotal role in shaping lives is beyond measure.

Working as an Education Consultant, Lawyer & Writer

Prior to immersing myself in the world of education consultancy, I practiced as a lawyer in Jalandhar Court. During my college and court days, I found solace in expressing my thoughts on political and societal issues in Punjab through writing in local newspapers. This passion for writing was not driven by financial gains but by an intrinsic sense of satisfaction that came from voicing my thoughts and opinions. Today I share my views on my online blog writings.

Pursuing Purpose

A positive mind is always important

I have always embraced life with a positive outlook, never allowing myself to be consumed by its negative aspects. To me, life is an opportunity to be surrounded by the best people, individuals who exude happiness and embrace success wholeheartedly. This philosophy has guided me through the difficulties of life, allowing me to appreciate the beauty that lies in every experience.

Another dream I wish

The comment made by my close friend may have had the power to pinch me, but it did not deter me from staying true to my values and passions. Instead, it served as a gentle reminder to nurture the fire within me, to keep living and loving life to the fullest, irrespective of age or societal expectations. I refuse to let my passion wane, for it is the driving force behind my aspirations to achieve more and establish a name or even a company in the days to come. I firmly believe that destiny will align itself with my perseverance and unwavering determination. Hoping support of people around.

Life’s journey is an ever-evolving adventure, full of unexpected twists and turns. Each chapter presents new challenges and opportunities, and it is up to us to embrace them with open arms. I have learned that true fulfillment comes not from the number of years we spend in our profession, but from the depth of passion we infuse into our work.

To those who may feel discouraged or uncertain about their own career paths, I implore you to tap into your innermost passions. Find what ignites your soul and drives you to excel, regardless of societal norms or material rewards. Work becomes a labor of love when passion becomes the driving force behind your efforts.

Life’s greatest rewards often come from the intangible joys we experience along the way. The satisfaction that comes from positively impacting lives, guiding others to reach their potential, and contributing to a brighter future is immeasurable. Embrace the power of passion, and you will discover the strength to overcome any obstacles that come your way.

Never too late to pursue your dreams,

It is never too late to pursue your dreams, for age is but a number. Let our lives be a testament to the fact that dedication and perseverance know no bounds. Let us work tirelessly to inspire others to keep their flames of passion burning brightly, long after retirement age beckons. Together, we can create a world where work is not just a means to an end, but a journey of self-discovery, growth, and fulfillment.

So, I urge you, my dear readers, to embark on your own unique journey with unwavering passion and determination. Let your work reflect your true self, and may you find the strength to keep striving until the very end. Let us show the world that a life lived with passion and purpose is a life truly worth living.

Also, read WORKING FROM HOME IS THE FUTURE OF WORK

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Job-oriented Courses for Indian students in Canada

Jaspal Singh - 1 August 2023

Students in Canada

Updated on September 9th, 2024

Canada has emerged as a preferred destination for Indian students seeking quality education and abundant job opportunities. With a diverse range of courses, excellent infrastructure, and welcoming policies, Canada offers an ideal environment for personal and professional growth. In this blog, we will explore the most popular jobs-oriented courses in Canada for Indian students that not only provide excellent job prospects but also pave the way for Permanent Residency (PR) possibilities.

Choosing the right course can be someone’s personal and may also depend upon relevancy with earlier studies despite that, you need to do proper research on real situations in the job market. Today several students are going to Canada on study visas and sometimes they get misguided in choosing the course. And the situation they realize when they land there. Here we are listing a few courses that can be beneficial for you.

Project Management

Ideal for candidates with 2-4 years of prior experience in any field, Project Management courses are widely available in cities like Toronto, Vancouver, and other regions. The program’s success in obtaining a student VISA is high, making it an attractive option for Indian students aspiring to study and work in Canada. Studying project management in Canada offers several advantages. Canada’s strong economy provides ample opportunities for project management jobs and internships, making it an attractive destination for career growth in this field.

Project Management

MBA in Canada:

A sought-after program for master’s degree seekers, the MBA in Canada offers various specializations. It provides comprehensive business education and opens doors to diverse career paths in the corporate world. Pursuing an MBA in Canada can be rewarding, as it offers access to excellent educational institutions and diverse career opportunities. Canada provides a post-graduation work permit (PGWP) to eligible international students, allowing them to work in Canada after completing their studies. Completing an MBA in Canada can enhance your chances of qualifying for permanent residency through various immigration pathways. The Canadian job market is known for its welcoming attitude towards skilled immigrants, and an MBA can significantly boost your chances of landing a rewarding job in Canada or elsewhere internationally. Remember that the job prospects can vary depending on your specialization, work experience, and networking efforts.

Supply Chain Management:

Supply Chain Management offers excellent job opportunities because of the country’s thriving economy and its position as a global trade hub. Many industries, such as manufacturing, retail, healthcare, and technology, heavily rely on efficient supply chain operations. Here are some potential Supply Chain Management jobs in Canada. Supply Chain Management courses in Canada offer abundant job opportunities. Graduates can find roles in logistics, operations, and procurement, among others, making it a practical choice for Indian students seeking a secure career path.

Canada’s economy relies heavily on the Supply Chain sector, which includes logistics, transportation, warehousing, and procurement. This industry provides an array of career opportunities, spanning from supply chain management to operations and logistics analysis. According to the 2022 Supply Chain Salary & Career report, the typical total compensation package for professionals in this field is CAD 89,460.

Cyber Security:

Cybersecurity is a rapidly growing field in Canada because of the increasing reliance on technology and the digitalization of businesses and services. With the rise of cyber threats and data breaches, there is a high demand for cybersecurity professionals to safeguard critical information and infrastructure. As the digital landscape expands, Cyber Security professionals are in high demand globally. This program caters to students interested in IT and promises rewarding career prospects. Canada’s public and private sectors recognize the importance of cybersecurity, leading to a strong demand for skilled cybersecurity experts. Organizations across various industries, including finance, healthcare, government, and technology, actively seek professionals to protect their systems and data.

IT sector jobs

The IT sector in Canada is undergoing rapid growth, driven by technological advancements and the shift towards digital transformation. It encompasses various fields, including software development, data analysis, cybersecurity, and artificial intelligence. In fact, Indeed’s List of Best Jobs in Canada for 2023 shows that 13 out of the top 20 jobs are tech roles, highlighting the high demand for IT professionals with specialized skills in the Canadian job market.

With businesses increasingly moving their operations online, the need for technical IT skills is set to rise further. To jumpstart your IT career, focus on obtaining relevant certifications, improving your programming abilities, and staying up-to-date with the latest industry trends.

Architecture & Engineering

The engineering sector in Canada is renowned for its innovation, top-notch infrastructure, and commitment to environmentally sustainable practices. It offers promising opportunities in various disciplines like electrical, mechanical, civil engineering, and architecture.

To work as a licensed engineer in any Canadian province or territory, you must obtain a license from the respective engineering association. However, you can still start your engineering career under the supervision of a licensed engineer who takes professional responsibility for your work, even if you haven’t received your own license yet.

Having knowledge of Canadian codes and standards is beneficial as it enhances your employability since employers must adhere to these regulations to ensure the minimum levels of safety, quality, and reliability in their projects.

Educational Leadership:

Educational leadership is a critical aspect of Canada’s education system, aiming to improve educational outcomes, promote innovation, and ensure effective school management. Pursuing educational leadership in Canada offers several benefits. Canadian universities and educational institutions offer comprehensive and advanced educational leadership programs. These programs focus on preparing leaders to navigate the complexities of the education system and drive positive change. This choice is for experienced teachers, universities primarily offered Educational Leadership programs. It equips educators with the skills to take on administrative roles in educational institutions.

Nursing Programs:

Canada offers a wide range of nursing programs at various educational institutions, providing students with comprehensive training and hands-on experiences. Nursing is a highly respected and rewarding profession in Canada, with a strong demand for qualified nurses across the country. With attractive salary packages and straightforward PR options, Nursing programs are a popular choice for Indian students. The Canadian healthcare sector offers many opportunities for growth and career advancement. Canada’s healthcare system is highly regarded, and the demand for skilled nurses remains constant. As the population ages and healthcare needs evolve, nursing professionals play a crucial role in providing quality care and contributing to the overall well-being of Canadian society. Graduates of nursing programs in Canada can find fulfilling careers in diverse healthcare settings, such as hospitals, clinics, long-term care facilities, community health centers, and educational institutions.

4-Year Bachelor’s Program:


Students can consider pursuing a 4-year Bachelor’s program, with the option to complete the first 2 years in India and the remaining 2 years in Canada. Studying for 2 years in India and 2 years in Canada, commonly known as a “2+2” program, offers several benefits to students who wish to gain an international education experience. Studying for the initial 2 years in India can often be more affordable compared to directly studying abroad. This allows students to save on tuition fees and living expenses during the first part of their education. Starting the program in India provides students with a familiar environment and a support system. This can help them adjust to the academic structure and cultural aspects before moving to a new country. I highly recommend the University of Fraser Valley for this pathway.

Canada offers a plethora of courses with extensive job opportunities and PR possibilities for Indian students. Whether it’s a specialization in business, technology, education, or healthcare, each program provides a unique pathway to a successful and fulfilling career. Aspirants should carefully consider their interests, prior experience, and long-term goals before deciding. With the right course and determination, Indian students can embark on a remarkable journey of education, growth, and success in the welcoming land of Canada. The courses mentioned about are just general information and the list is not final. You may consult official sources or some consultant.

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