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Louis XIV and His Women: A Tale of Love and Power

Jaspal Singh - 5 October 2023

Louis XIV

Louis XIV’s love of women is well known. Throughout his life, he had several mistresses including the Marquise de Montespan and the Duchess of La Vallière, both of whom bore him several legitimated children. Louis XIV had a real eye for the ladies. He had a series of mistresses, each leaving their mark on both his personal life and the history of France. This article delves into the intriguing world of Louis XIV’s romantic entanglements, highlighting some of the most prominent women who captured his heart.

Marie Mancini: The Forbidden Love

Marie Mancini was an Italian noblewoman and the niece of Cardinal Mazarin, who served as the chief minister to King Louis XIV of France. She and Louis XIV did indeed have a romantic relationship during their youth. Marie Mancini was a part of the Mazarin family, which had a significant influence at the French court. The love story was one of the early romantic episodes in Louis XIV’s life. However, it did not lead to marriage, as Cardinal Mazarin, who had ambitions for his niece, was more interested in securing political alliances through her marriage. Ultimately, Louis XIV married Maria Theresa of Spain in 1660 for political reasons, and Marie Mancini was married off to another nobleman.

Marie Mancini, one of Women of Louis XIV
Marie Manchini

Marie Mancini’s relationship with Louis XIV is notable for its influence on the young king and for the political maneuvering that surrounded it, but it did not result in a lasting love story in the traditional sense. Ultimately, their love was short-lived, as they banished Marie Mancini from the royal court, leaving Louis to fulfill his dynastic duty of marriage.

Maria Theresa and Louis XIV: A Political Union

Maria Theresa of Spain and Louis XIV of France had a significant political marriage in the 17th century, which was a key event in European diplomacy. Their union was part of the broader efforts to establish peace and alliances in Europe during the time. In 1660, Maria Theresa, the Infanta of Spain, married Louis XIV, the King of France, in a marriage that ended decades of conflict between France and Spain. This marriage was part of the Treaty of the Pyrenees, which concluded the Franco-Spanish War. Maria Theresa brought a substantial dowry and several territorial rights to the marriage, which should strengthen the position of France.

Maria Theresa, one of Women of Louis XIV
Maria Theresa

Their marriage was not without its difficulties, and it faced challenges, including political tensions and personal conflicts. Despite this, Maria Theresa and Louis XIV had several children together, and their marriage played a role in consolidating Louis XIV’s power and expanding France’s influence in Europe.

This union contributed to the diplomatic landscape of 17th-century Europe and had a lasting impact on the history of France and Spain. It marked a significant shift in European alliances and rivalries during that era. This union was not born out of love but political necessity. Despite its initial purpose, this marriage had significant implications for the French monarchy and European politics.

Louise de La Vallière: The First Official Mistress

Louise de La Vallière and Louis XIV had a notable love story during the reign of the Sun King in 17th-century France. Born in 1644, she became one of Louis XIV’s mistresses when she was quite young, around 1661. Their relationship was characterized by genuine affection, and Louise was known for her modesty and religious devotion, which was unusual for a royal mistress of that time. She bore several children with Louis XIV, although many of them did not survive infancy. During this time, she bore the king four children, two of whom were legitimized. Her presence at the court marked the beginning of a pattern in Louis’s love life, one that included the legitimization of offspring.

Louise de La Vallière,one of Women of Louis XIV
Louise de La Vallière

Louise de La Vallière’s influence on Louis XIV was significant. She encouraged him to become more involved in religious matters, and it’s believed that her piety had a positive impact on the king. However, as with many royal love affairs, their relationship faced challenges, including competition from other mistresses and the demands of court life. Eventually, Louise de La Vallière withdrew from the court and entered a convent in 1674, where she spent the remainder of her life in religious devotion.

While their love story had its ups and downs, Louise de La Vallière’s influence on Louis XIV, as well as her transition to a life of piety, is a notable aspect of their historical relationship.

Marquise de Montespan: The Ultimate Temptation

The Marquise de Montespan, a beauty who captured the king’s heart during the Flanders campaign in 1667, would become one of his most prominent mistresses. She became one of the most famous and influential mistresses of the Sun King during the latter half of the 17th century.

Beginnings of the Relationship: Françoise-Athénaïs de Rochechouart de Mortemart, known as Athénaïs, became a lady-in-waiting to Queen Maria Theresa of Spain. Through her charm and wit, she caught the eye of Louis XIV, and their relationship began while he was still involved with Louise de La Vallière.

Marquise de Montespan, one of Women of Louis XIV
Marquise de Montespan

Principal Mistress: Athénaïs soon became Louis XIV’s principal mistress, effectively replacing Louise de La Vallière in his affections. Her beauty, intelligence, and strong personality made her a prominent figure at the royal court. Athénaïs bore several children for Louis XIV, and unlike Louise de La Vallière, she openly acknowledged them and raised them at court. These children were legitimized and given noble titles.

As the king’s principal mistress, Athénaïs wielded significant influence. She was involved in political and social affairs, and her position allowed her to promote the interests of her family and allies. As years passed, the intensity of Louis XIV’s relationship with Athénaïs waned. He had other mistresses and faced political pressures that led to a decline in their relationship. After her fall from grace, Athénaïs retired from the court and lived in a more secluded manner. She became a patron of the arts and culture.

The love story between the Marquise de Montespan and Louis XIV is emblematic of the complex and sometimes tumultuous relationships that characterized the French court during the reign of the Sun King. It’s also a reflection of the shifting dynamics of power and influence in the royal court.

Mademoiselle de Fontanges: A Brief Interlude

Mademoiselle de Fontanges, a youthful beauty, briefly won the favor of Louis XIV. Her relationship with the king was fleeting, demonstrating the ever-changing dynamics of Louis’s romantic life. Mademoiselle de Fontanges, whose real name was Marie Angélique de Scorailles, was a French noblewoman who lived during the reign of King Louis XIV of France. While there is no well-documented love story between them, there were rumors and speculations about a romantic relationship.

Mademoiselle de Fontanges,one of Women of Louis XIV
Mademoiselle de Fontanges

Marie Angélique de Scorailles was known for her beauty, and she caught the attention of the King when she attended the court. Some say that Louis XIV had an affair with her, which might have caused jealousy and intrigue at the royal court. However, there is limited historical evidence to confirm the extent of their relationship.

It’s important to note that Louis XIV had many mistresses throughout his life, including Madame de Montespan and Madame de Maintenon, and his romantic involvements were a subject of great interest during his reign. The exact nature of his relationship with Mademoiselle de Fontanges remains a mystery, as historical records from that time are not always clear or reliable.

Madame de Maintenon: From Governess to Queen

Françoise d’Aubigné, who would later become Madame de Maintenon, entered Louis XIV’s life as the governess to Madame de Montespan’s children. Her sweetness and charm eventually captured the king’s heart. Following the death of Maria Theresa, their secret marriage in 1683 marked a remarkable turn of events. Madame de Maintenon’s influence on the king was profound, as she became a confidante and advisor.

Madame de Maintenon, one of Women of Louis XIV
Madame de Maintenon

Louis XIV’s relationships with women were not merely affairs of the heart; they had far-reaching consequences for the French monarchy and the course of European history. From forbidden love to political unions and passionate affairs, his romantic entanglements reflect the complexity of his reign. These women, each unique in their own right, left an indelible mark on the Sun King’s legacy and the annals of history.

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In The ABYSS of HER SOUL

Bhawana - 18 May 2022

Her Soul

Updated on June 2nd, 2023

In the abyss of her soul,
Lies a contented child
who is longing to transpire
To discern the imminent daylight
In the abyss of her soul,
She is love, passion, and fire
Who has the mastery
To bring even the kings of the world
down on their knees
In the abyss of her soul,
She is yet to be freed

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Contributed by: Tania

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DREAM MAN OF HERS

Bhawana - 17 May 2022

Candle Light couple

Updated on June 2nd, 2023

A night with a man who made her feel like a Queen
It was drizzling outside, and the chilly breeze was flowing
She was dressed in a red gown with danglers in her ears and an anklet on her feet
The sound of her entry into the hall was very sensational
The man was standing at the entrance of the hall,
Holding a candle in his hand, he was dressed like a gentleman with a bow and a hat
He was a little nervous holding her hand, as she was the most beautiful girl of his dreams
His hands were shaking and trembling
But she was excited and happy about this special moment
So the gravitational forces were so powerful at her end

that she surpassed his level of energy and let him welcome her
He welcomed her to the Paradise of their life. She was all happy and cherishing her dearly beloved.
She saw candles all over and with water flowing in jar and the music of a flute playing in the background making the moment more romantic and memorable
In the center of the table was champagne with two glasses
There was love everywhere around the room
They held each other tightly throughout the night as they ran out of breath just by looking in each other’s deep orbs of eyes
And… it was never-ending
A night with a man who made her feel like a Queen

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She was my Angel Friend

Bhawana - 31 August 2021

In this blog, I’m writing about a lady, whom I call my Angel friend. She was in her eighties, and her skin had wrinkles despite that, her blushing eyes know the way to make people in love. In her old age, she is still exquisite and attractive. I know her for few years. We used to meet occasionally in a shopping mall near to my residence. We became good friends. I still remember the day when we met the first time. She was in the same shopping mall searching for something. I liked her at first sight, tried to talk to her that day. ’ I think you are searching for something. May I help you?’ She turned to me with a smile on her face and since then we became friends. We shared coffee; we had a good chat that day.

She was living on a different side of a shopping mall. That day, we waved goodbye and went our ways. During our conversation, one thing shocked my soul and mind. On my asking what she did whole life like a profession, firstly she was lost in her thoughts, closed eyes and then with all pain in her voice, she said, ’I was escort’. It stunned me to hear her words. I said nothing. On my way home, I was thinking of her only. How such a beautiful and calm lady can say this. Is she really had such a past? My mind did not believe her words.

My Angel
My Angel

After that day, we met many times, but I never dared to ask again. I always liked her beautiful eyes and graceful smile.

A few days back, when I went to church, I saw her sitting in one corner praying with closed eyes. I saw her from quite a distance. She was looking like some angel. On the back wall of the church, I also saw a picture of Mother Mary. Felt so much resemblance.

I wanted to ask her that why she said she was an escort but I was having neither the courage nor words to ask. I was sitting and praying and suddenly someone asked me,’ where you are lost, my child’. It was the father of the church. I shared my doubt with him. He knew her well and what he told me really stunned me. He told me she is a fantastic lady. She was not an escort. What she told me was not true.

She loved someone

In fact, in her youth, she was in love with someone. She loved a man in his hard times, gave him a better lifestyle, supported him and done all she could to love him, but that man had different intentions in his mind. He was with her not for love or care, but his reason was selfishness. She was a beautiful and innocent girl. She couldn’t understand the materialistic selfish reasons of his man to be with her. Time passed and by one day he left her all alone in the world with debt on her shoulders and tears in her eyes and sickness and pain in her heart. She cried alone for so many days.

She started inhaling drugs and alcohol but nothing was helping her she was still in his memories and was in the hope of him coming back.

I saw her standing and waiting at the door for him. One day she heard him saying, ’I befooled you’. She started crying louder and then when the next morning she woke up she said to herself it was not you who befooled me; it was me who got befooled; I knew at every step that u don’t love me; you have reasons to be with me but I thought u will change because I love you so much.

Having frustration and thinking that she slept with a man who was using her as an escort for the tenure of time for his selfish motives, she engraved deep a thought in her mind that she is an escort. With this thought, she lived her whole life.

Hearing all this, my eyes were full of tears, completely voiceless. I turned back, but nobody was there. I came back home with a heavy heart. Never met her again.

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The Love Tale of Prince Edward and Mrs Simpson

Jaspal Singh - 25 August 2021

Updated on September 7th, 2024

History is not only a subject full of kings, queens, fights, conspiracies, and power-capturing strategies. It also has many other things than dry tales and discussions. Love, emotions, and sacrifices also remained an important part of pages of the past. All kings are not behind power politics; few set their priorities in their own way. They left the crown for their love, their passion as well other values. The love tale of Prince Edward and Mrs. Wallis Simpson is a perfect example to say that love and passions can really drive the lives of a few, and those few make life really beautiful and more liveable and meaningful.

When Prince Edward fell in love with Wallis, she was not only already married but also divorced. Prince himself was also involved with other women. Mrs Simpson entered his life, but being American was a big hurdle in their love story, as Americans were not highly regarded in British. Their relation grew up into a deep friendship, and then it crossed all limits to be a ‘perfect love story. Nobody in the Royal family liked this relation. The passion in relation was so intense that it sparked a constitutional crisis. Despite all this, King was happy to give up the British throne, and ultimately, Edward VIII renounced his throne in December 1936 with his brother Albert crowned King George VI.

Following his abdication, the pair married a year on, and remained in union for 35 years until Edward’s death in May 1972.

The first meeting of Edward & Mrs. Simpson

King Edward was a good-looking person with blonde hair and blue eyes, a boyish look on his face. He maintained this look throughout his life. Yet Prince Edward preferred married women. Because of his appealing personality, many women got attracted. Before meeting Mrs Wallis Simpson, he was having relations with different ladies. One of those was lady Furness, who hosted a party on 10 January 1931, where she invited both Prince Edward and Mrs Simpson and her husband, Ernest Simpson. It was the first meeting between Prince and Mrs Simpson. No doubt it did not leave any powerful impression on Prince. Thereafter, they met on different occasions during the next few months. Very truly, it was not love at first sight for either of them. Edward continued his affair with Lady Furness, although he and Wallis met at various house parties.

Prince Edward in Style
Prince Edward’s style

Prince Edward’s other relations:

In 1918, Prince Edward met Mrs. Winifred (“Freda”), Dudley Ward. Although they were about the same age (23), Freda had been married for five years when they met. For 16 years, Freda was Prince Edward’s mistress.

Mrs. Simpson also remained a frequent guest to Prince Edward for the next two years. They came close to each other when Lady Furness was on a trip to the USA in January 1934. Thereafter other ladies, including Lady Furness, were cut out of Prince’s life. Freda Dudley Ward was also one who remained close to Prince until 1934 and the beginning of Prince’s relationship with Wallis Simpson. In January 1934, Thelma Furness made a trip to the United States, entrusting Prince Edward to the care of Wallis in her absence. Upon Thelma’s return, she found she was no longer welcome in Prince Edward’s life—even her phone calls were refused.

Mrs. Simpson & her earlier life

Simpson was born on June 19, 1896, in Pennsylvania but grew up in Baltimore, Maryland. She was a socialite who had been married twice when she met Edward at a party. Mrs Simpson was not only exquisite, but she also had a sense of style and posed in her personality. She was 35 when she met Edward at a house party hosted by Lady Thelma Furness.

When she grew into a young woman, she married Lieutenant Earl Winfield, a pilot for US Navy, in 1916. This marriage lasted until their divorce in December 1927. After a few months of divorce, she got married to Ernest Simpson in July 1928.

As said earlier, it was in the year 1934 that Prince and Wallis became closer. There was a reference to when Prince invited both Mrs. Wallis Simpson and her husband to cruise, but Ernest Simpson could not accompany his wife because of his business involvement. On this cruise, they crossed the limits of friendship and fell completely in love with each other.

The testing phase of their relationship

The relationship between Prince and Mrs. Simpson entered a testing phase when King George V, father of the prince, died in January 1936, and thereafter Prince became King Edward VIII. The New King was occupied with big state affairs responsibilities, but no one in the King’s circles welcomed his infatuation with Mrs. Simpson. Then-Prime Minister Stanley Baldwin believed people would not accept divorced women with two living ex-husbands as queen. In fact, this relation rocked Britain’s most prominent institutions – Parliament, the monarchy, and the Church of England – to their cores. But Edward was excited and wanted to make her Queen, but he couldn’t.

Edward and Mrs Simpson in 1941
The Duke & Duchess of Windsor, Style Setters: at resorts in Miami, 1941.

King left his throne to be with the women he loved

The Church of England did not allow divorced people to remarry if their former spouses were still alive, and as King Edward was the head of the Church, so it was believed that he could not remain king and marry Wallis Simpson. Ultimately, he was left with simple options, either leave Simpson or abdicate Thorn. As he was very much committed to being with his love, King Edward finally left the thorn in December 1936.

In his famous abdication speech, he said, “I have found it impossible to carry the heavy burden of responsibility, and to discharge my duties as king as I would wish to do, without the help and support of the woman I love.” His brother, Prince Albert, who became George VI, acceded to the throne. Edward went off to marry Wallis in France and was rarely seen in Britain again.

It was certainly a significant decision where he proved that love is more important than anything in life. More interestingly, Edward abdicated the throne for her, even though she was still married to her second husband. Later on, she sued for divorce, and it was granted. Edward and Wallis got married on June 3, 1937, in a minimal ceremony.

Voluntary exile in Paris

After the abdication and marriage of Edward to Wallis, the Royal family shunned the couple. Their ‘wedding day was also the first day of the rest of their lives in permanent exile. Once Edward abdicated, he lost his title as King and was referred to immediately after Prince Edward. Given the titles of Duke and Duchess of Windsor, the couple lived in voluntary exile in Paris, where they were known for their elegant dinner parties. They continue to attend the galas, fashion shows, and dinner parties that had always been her natural environment. Publically, they were always looking elegant and well-dressed. Edward loved the 12,000-acre secluded estate near Tallahassee, where he was preoccupied with outdoor pursuits including hunting, picnics, and horse riding, which he enjoyed immensely. They were also sent to the Bahamas as Governor for a short period.

Edward and Mrs Simpson
Edward & Mrs. Simpson in 1942

Edward passed away in May 1972, as his health fell down because of heavy smoking, Mrs. Wallis lived fourteen more years till her death in April 1986, at 89, when she was buried beside her Duke of Windsor. The couple had no child. They could never return to Britain unless Edward came to attend the funeral of King George VI in 1952 and again for his mother, Queen Mary, in 1953. Wallis didn’t accompany him to either funeral, but she could return for Edward’s funeral in 1972. With many difficulties, their love tale is really touching.

The Duchess and Duke of Windsor in 1946
The Duchess and Duke of Windsor, 1946

Royal Family relation in later life

Although their marriage forced Edward into exile (which explained the move across the English Channel to Paris), Wallis was granted some acceptance from the royal family as the years went on. When Edward died, his funeral was held in England, and she stayed at Buckingham Palace for the event, according to Anne Sebba, the author of the book, That Women: The Life of Wallis Simpson, Duchess of Windsor

Wallis and Edward in 1956

Eyes for each other: Wallis and Edward in more tender moments in Florida, 1956

Love ultimately proved

Love certainly is more than just going on dates holding hands and kissing. It’s about accepting each other’s weirdness and flaws. Sometimes people also say ‘Love is being stupid together. This love tale ended years ago it has many aspects to remember for ages to come. Their tale remained a hot topic for the entire world for the last more than a half-century. Few say it is the greatest love story, while others see it as the ultimate royal scandal. Still, their romance is certainly mired in controversy because, to be with the woman he loved, Britain’s king paid a truly extraordinary price – he gave up the British throne for his love. 

A king left his throne to be with the woman he loved. Duke of Windsor has become a romanticized figure over his devotion to American divorcee Wallis Simpson. Few believe that this was the love story of the century, but for others, it was a scandal that threatened to weaken the monarchy. 

Read another interesting article The Tragic Tale of a Dream Lady, Bollywood actress Vimmi

References

  • King Edward VIII Abdicated for Love by Jennifer Rosenberg at About.com.
  • http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Edward_VIII
  • http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/2699035.stm
  • http://www.dailymail.co.uk/
  • http://www.people.com
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